How to not care of what people think
Hey guys! it is me khadija and welcome back. So, if you are here then it completely means that you want to know that how to not care of what people think. And guys, if you know how much draining is that, like your life is precious and you are itself important. And you choose to consider other people and you choose to give them that importance which they do not even deserve.
So, in this blog I am going to tell you that how to stop caring about other people. And I guarantee you, that this blog is going to bring the change in your life. However, you will not notice it at first, but sooner you will start to see its results.
- Judgement is natural but it’s impact is your choice.
- You can not satisfy everyone.
- Be authentic to yourself.
- Do not let fear of judgement stop you.
- Your life, your rules.
- People leave when they cannot use you.
- Know your worth, set boundaries.
- Conclusion.
Judgement is natural but it’s impact is your choice:
So, now the first thing is that just think that exactly what is vlaue of these people. Like who these people are literally? Like these people do not even know about themselves. Like it is in the human nature that we observe and we judge. It always happens. Like eveyone judges. And that is the thing which we can never ever control. People always judge. But the thing is that we should not consider it. Because it is us who allow these people opinions to enter and disturb our mental peace.
You can not satisfy everyone:
Also you need to know that whatever you are doing either it is good or bad, people are going to say a lot of things. But ignore this bullshit. Some of your closed ones are going to motivate you while on the other hand some of them are are going to laugh at you and they would make you feel low. But that is totally okay. Because listen! We can not satisfy everyone. If you everyone is satisfied with you, then ponder upon yourself because you would be the fakest person. Because in order to make everyone like you, you start to become that person which you are not.
Be authentic to yourself:
So, I will just say that always be authentic to yourself. And when you become authentic to yourself, you would be satisfied with yourself. And that is the only thing that matters.
Do not let fear of judgement stop you:
Also, do not stop doing anything just because of the fear of judgement of the other people. You know, even when you try to mould yourself according to these people. Even then they start to point out. And you would be like I did everything according to them and even then they are not satisfied and still adding errors in me. So why not do everything according to yourself. Because these people would judge you everytime.
Your life, your rules:
So, you need to be full authentic to yourself and just enjoy your life according to your own terms. And do not even think about these people. Their opinions are literally nothing. It is your life. Everyone has it’s own life. So live your life fully.Do whatever you want to do. Because I am again mentioning that it is your life not the others.
People leave when they cannot use you:
You need to learn that You are on the pedastal and look, these people are so mean. When they can not get advantage of you, they just leave you.
Know your worth, set boundaries:
You know what, enough is enough. Start acting like you do not care.Start remindering yourself this thing. Be like the one who is not desperate. You should prefer being alone rather than be desparate for company of these people. When someone does not give you that respect, then you should just put them in a limit. Do not lower yourself for them.Because you deserve to take up space.
Conclusion:
Anyways guys! it is time to say goodbye. But you need to know that you deserve everything in this world. You should know that this world is abundant. If they do not like you it is okay. Another person is going to like you. But do not you dare to think that low of yourself. Be confindent. Be someone who does not care that if someone is in his life or not.
Also, if you will find yourself and be comfortable with yourself then this world would not matter to you. So, here is the link of the blog, you can read it to find yourself again.👇
https://khadspsychology.com/find-yourself/
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