Find Yourself

Find yourself (part 01)

Hi guys!It’s me, Khadija. Welcome back to another blog! Today, I’m going to talk about something very important: how to find yourself Here’s how we begin:

• Why you lost yourself.
• The harsh reality.
• The advice you need to hear
• Redefining your worth
• Take the first step today
• How to love yourself
• Own your identity
• Be confident in
• Enjoy life with purpose
• Spiritual strength is real strength
• Final thoughts
• To be continued‎
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Why You Lost Yourself
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‎You know what? I understand. You were so busy making others happy that you completely forgot about yourself.
‎You forgot how you wanted to be treated.
‎You forgot that you also deserve respect and love.You cared too much for people who gave you nothing in return.
‎Seriously, this world can be so cruel.
‎While trying to build yourself, you wanted to fit in. But the same people you tried so hard to impress, made you feel small.
‎The same people for whom you broke your boundaries. The same people you stayed silent for, just to protect their feelings.
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‎The Harsh Reality
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‎This world is literally designed to hurt you sometimes.You think you have many people around, but when the real time comes, you realize you’re completely alone.This world is a big lie, and you keep trying to mold yourself to fit in.
‎You react the way they want. You behave the way they expect.
‎Still, it’s never enough. They keep finding faults.
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‎The Advice You Need to Hear
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‎Here’s my honest advice: detach yourself from everything.Even if you think you’ve found someone different, they’ll still hurt you.So stop expecting anything from anyone.People say a lot without realizing how much it can hurt. And you know what’s funny,
‎You give someone your full attention and they make you the least of their priorities.
‎Why? Because they think you’ll always be available.
‎I know, you loved someone, but they didn’t care.
‎Don’t ever think you weren’t enough.
‎Never believe that you are not worthy of someone just because they don’t value you.
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‎Redefining Your Worth
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‎Your worth is not defined by others.
‎It’s not defined by how many people like you.Not by your brand, your money, or your followers.Your worth is defined by your character, that’s the only thing that truly belongs to you.
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‎Take the First Step Today
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‎Listen to me:
‎Detach yourself.Make that one decision—and make it now.Whatever happened in the past is gone.Now, it’s time to change your present.From today onwards, you are your own priority.
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‎Say affirmations in the mirror.
‎Prioritize your mental peace.
‎Do what makes you happy.
‎Stop caring about people’s opinions.
‎Put their judgments under your feet, they’re meaningless.
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‎How to Love Yourself
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‎If you loved someone deeply and they didn’t care, let them go.
‎Now it’s time to love yourself deeply.
‎When something happens and you don’t like it—speak up.If someone invades your personal space, set boundaries.
‎Say it clearly:
‎“Hey, you’re entering my personal space and I don’t like it.”
‎Live your life freely, without desperation for others.
‎This is your life—live it by your own rules.
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‎Own Your Identity
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‎Start developing your personal style.
‎Your signature scent, your favorite lipstick, your own unique way of dressing, own it all.Whether you’re a man or woman, your style is yours.
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‎Be confident in:
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‎Your walk
‎Your talk
‎Your lifestyle
‎Your eating habits
‎Your responses
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‎People will be shocked by the change. They’ll wonder what happened.
‎But guess what? Who cares?
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‎Enjoy Life with Purpose
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‎Be financially independent.
‎Do your own work.And don’t take life too seriously.Have fun, laugh, chill—but stay responsible.
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‎The only One you should truly care about is Allah.He is your Creator.Live your life the way you want, but always stay within the limits He set.
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‎Spiritual Strength Is Real Strength
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‎Always ask for help from Allah.
‎Cry in front of Him only.
‎Be needy only before Allah, not people.
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‎Mold your life according to the Qur’an, and you will find peace and success.
‎If you want a role model, then follow Prophet Muhammad (PBUH).
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‎Talk to others, laugh with others, but for the sake of Allah.Be kind, gentle, generous—for the sake of Allah.
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‎Spend money on people—for Allah.
‎Hide others’ flaws. Don’t expose them.
‎Live without tension, because Allah is the best planner.Tell Allah about all your worries.Love only Him.This world does not deserve the pure love in your heart—it will only break it.
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‎Final Thoughts
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‎Learn to be happy alone.
‎But also work on your communication skills.And remember, the journey to finding yourself is both a mental and spiritual process.
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‎To Be Continued…
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‎We’ve discussed the psychological part.
‎But this journey is incomplete without the spiritual side.
‎So stay tuned for Part 2, where we’ll go deeper into the spiritual path to finding yourself. Here is it’s link👇‎https://khadspsychology.com/find-yourself-2/