How to get rid of past regrets

How to get rid of past regrets:

Did you ever feel lonely in the crowd of people? Did you ever feel that you have lost a gem? Do you want to come out of past regrets? Because you know what sometimes we can not see the worth of someone and we behave with them so rudely that one day they are out from our life. Because they get hurt. And at that point we do not realize that. But when they are gone, we come to realise their importance. We can feel there absence. We miss the way they used to be.

But you know what, you are also a human. And humans make mistakes.  May be you were going to loose a kind of big thing. And God prevented you from that by just giving you that little loss. And it is totally ok that people have changed. Because people change, and it is human nature. May be if you did not do that behavior with that person, 90% chances are that they would be bad towards you. But now, do not cry. Because it happened. We can not do anything.

Give yourself the space:

And give yourself some space.Just imagine, you can forgive others. But when It is your turn, you are not willing to forgive yourself. Why ??. Do not do that. If you made a mistake it is totally OK! Do not be sad.

Ignore those thoughts:

And if at some points you remember those things, then just ignore that kind of thoughts. Because the more you think about it, the more you are going to dwell into it. However for the next time you can try your best to not hurt others the way you hurted them in past. Learn and keep going on.

Handover all your things to God:

Just leave the things in the hands of God. Say to him that I made this mistake and now I do not know what to do. And trust me the God will listen, and He will definitely provide you the pathway. And we are not perfect so just be okay with it. It is not that kind of big loss.

Trust me , because you are going to find another person and may be he will love you more than that person. And you will know the worth of that love, just because of your previous mistakes. So it is not good that you made those mistakes right now. Maybe God prevened you from the bigger loss in the future. Trust me, everything happens in the God’s way. And He has written your destiny in a very beautiful way. So do not ruin it by repenting on your mistakes. Because these all are the parts of your life. Learn to survive with them.

It is okay if you feel lonely:

And it is okay to feel lonely. You know what whenever some big thing is going to happen, you feel lackness a lot. Because the universe is taking up space. And suddenly you are gonne be very happy. Because God will not leave you abandon as he loves you more than you love yourself. So, do not ever be sad. Just think that It is the part of your life. Today you think that nothing is going to happen as you have lost everything. But look you have learnt a lot just by loosing those things. So isn’t it great?

Be greaceful and trust me you will get a better person. Dot feel lonely, instead talk to God. Tell him how you are feeling and He will listen. You know what, people do not take interest in our conversation but God does. He wants to lighten us. He wants to listen you. Because He loves you. So, do not feel bad about youself. You are such a good hearted soul. And also you did not do that on purpose. Now you can not do anything except to move on. So now, just go ahead and enjoy your life.

Start enjoying your life:

Life is so beautiful. Just look at yourself, you are healthy, enjoying blessings of food and then reading this article for your self healing. Isn’t it great. And do not compare yourself with anyone. Because you are unique. Nobody is like you. No one can handle the things as you do. So be proud of yourself. And give yourself the space which your inner child wants. But you are not giving that, just beacuse of the repentence of the mistake you made.

Do not be harsh on yourself:

Do not be harsh on yourself. Instead, just think why did I do that behavior? Just learn deep down why it happened but do not exaggerate it. And once you know the reason, you can console yourself. Because sometimes, we are so sad from inside that we become very rude from outside and we do not see others feeling which results in such type of silly mistakes.

Change takes time:

You know what, it happens and it always happens that when you are taking a new start of your life, you can not suddenly become that exact highest version of youself. Because it takes time. You know in starting days you will think that yes, I am capable of doing it. But suddenly you will remember or your mind can click those previous mistakes which you made. And you suddenly become stuck and start feeling bad. But you know that is the part of your journey. It will happen and those regrets would try to bend you so that you can not move forward.But you will move ahead.

You need to do something better:

You have to take those steps. And gradually, you will see that effect of those regrets is now becoming very less in your mind. And trust me, it will happen one day and I guarantee you. However, at this time it is looking impossible to you and you think that you can not come out of your past mistakes. But do not worry because like you, everyone has made the mistakes. Everyone is upset about them. But the thing is that you need to let go of that feeling and start doing some better steps. Only then you will feel secure.

Like take this as a rule. Like whenever you feel you have done something wrong, immediately try to do some thing better e.g help somebody,create easiness for someone. So that you can feel confident and the regret of that feeling can be suppressed. And once you sit down and think about your whole day, then ponder upon why did you make that mistake? So that you can never repeat it again.

Do not doubt on yourself:

Also, own it that you made that mistake. Because you are a human and it is common for humans to make mistakes. So do not ever dare to judge yourself so badly that you start doubting. Because you are a very good person and you deserve a very good life .So do not ruin it by doubting youself or giving yourself the punishment of remaing in tha same thoughts of your mistakes which you did in past. Because they will do nothing but will ruin your own happiness.

Be proud of yourself:

You need to be proud of yourself and you are not supposed to have any guilt inside of you. Guilt is a good thing but it is not supposed to kill your own happiness.

 

Anyway guys! Now it is time to say goodbye, but now you have come to know what you have to do .Give yourself space and do not punish yourself for the mistake you did. Because it was destined to be happend.And you know what life is very beautiful.You just need to come out of your past and start enjoying the today’s beauty.