How to know your worth

How to know your worth

Sometimes it is very hard to be capable of seeing your own worth. Because we consider others so much that we neglect ourselves. And you do not consider yourself. Because you are so low in your eyes. It may be because someone treated you so low or did not see your worth. But trust me, the pain from which you are going through, it is worth living.

• Those things were meant to happen.
• Start a new chapter full of your worth.
• Always prefer yourself.
• Be financially independent.
• Be selfish for yourself.
• Do not find worthiness in meaterialistic things.
• You compare yourself with social media.
• Conclusion.

Those things were meant to happen:

But trust me, as the time will pass by, you will know that why those things happened. And also that, it was so much important for those things to be happend. You know you have to just forget the ways and behavior that how you used to act and start bringing up that version of yourself which you always wanted to have. Just start a new chapter and new journey of your life. You can become that person.

Start a new chapter full of your worth:

The only thing you need to do is to start your journey. Because I know at this time, no one trusts on you and no one believes in you that you are capable of achieving those things. But you know, is not it enough that you are believing in yourself. Your compliments, your appreciation is not enough? You know why you think that it is not enough because you have not given yourself that importance. You think that only when other people are going to validate, only then you will know the value of that thing. But honey it is not like that. Come out of that lack mindset.

Always prefer yourself:

Another important thing, you need to think that it is your’s life, not the other’s life. You can do whatever you want. You can take stand for yourself. Because I know, alot of times we do not consider ourselves just because of other people. Even I used to prefer others over myself. But then I noticed that no one did consider myself. And I was the one who always paid the price. Then I was like that no! I can not live like that. That is why I am telling you that please come out of that and start prefering yourself before it is too late that people have used you soo much that now you have no much enegy to bear or heal.

‎Also start doing things which you like the most. Do that job or work in which you have interest, so that when you live your whole day and come on your bed, you do not think that it was a exhausted day. Instead you woud probably think, that it was quite hactic day but a good day because you were busy in those things which you liked.

Be financially independent:

‎Also you need to think that it is my life and i need to be responsible. I need to be financially independent. You know what, your mentality should be like not the acceptor but the provider. Like you should be the one who helps others either financially or any other way. Because just imagine, if you are in your comfort zone, and always accepting money from others. Do you then think you are productive or can accomplish anything?

Be selfish for yourself:

‎Start loving yourself. Listen! You are supposed to only think about yourself and not the other one. Obviously! because look it is your life and in your life you are going to think only about yourself. Like you have to spread love and appreciation, but before doing that do not forget yourself. Because you are the main character of your life. You are the writer of your life, so do not be overwhelmed and start recognizing your power. And you can do this. Like I am 100% sure you can do this .

Do not find worthiness in meaterialistic things:

‎You should not think that only materialism mattersyou know the real happiness is sleeping comfortablly,and when you wake up u have a breakfast . Although if it is normal but still you have your breakfast, also you are so much healthy that you have the power to do work so that you can have money. Just look at those people who do not even have hands ,who do not have eyes. So be grateful. Also when you come home, you always have the dinner. Then you have the house even if it is small, but still it is a house where you can peacefully sleep. Just imagine those who sleep on roads. So there are so many things which God has provided you and you are still like I have nothing. Seriosly!

You compare yourself with social media:

‎Also put down social media, it is totally the fakest world. Do not look for the attention, do not be like that omg no one wants me, instead you should act like everyone wants to talk to me. Everyone loves me. And you should think that you choose people to talk to you.

Conclusion:

‎Anyways guys! it is time to say good byee. Hope you enjoyed reading this blog and it helped you. Love you guys! Take care.
‎Also, if you want to dive more into your worth, then you must read this blog. It will also help you.👇

https://khadspsychology.com/why-i-want-to-be-loved/