How to restart your life

Hey Guys! It is me Khadija and if you are reading it, then you must want to know that how to restart your life. We are going to discuss these points. Let us get started.

1. You need to sacrifice to get ahead.
2. Be grateful for even small things.
3. You are alone in your own journey.
4. Give yourself 6 months.
5. Bring up your new version.
6. Do not have the victim mindset.
7. It will be difficult only in the starting days.

You need to sacrifice to get ahead:

So when you try to restart your life or you think that now I am going to change my lifestyle or whatever you want, you will notice that in the initial days it would be very hard for you. So, whenerver you feel like that things are going out of your hand, then do not get panick and do not think that now everything is going to be dropped down. It is not like that. May be your past was more luxurious than your present. But look, it is building you up and you are going to see that what will happen when you are not desperate about having each and everything.

Be grateful for even small things:

Usually we all think that only when we would have cars,mansions,wealth ,fame etc only then we would be grateful. But you know life can be lived only on the basic and simple node also. You know the real life blessing is that you are healthy, you have food for today and you have a shelter for yourself to live. Then all of the other things do not matter. Seriously these things do not Although you can work to achieve those things, but it not as much as that kind of fantasy which you probably think.

You are alone in your journey:

At this time you are thinking that everything has stopped. No one is with you. You are very alone. You have very limited resources for yourself. But trust me the only game changer is time. Give yourself 6 months and say that in this era I am going to burn out. Like burn your desires. Built up yourself so much so that once 6 months are gone you would be like that o man i did it!

Give yourself 6 months:

And you know, you should work atleast for 6 months. You have to burn yourself. You have to detach yourself from everything. You really need to do this. And in front of people do not act like a victim, be the problem solver for them. After 6 months ,you are going to have everything which you desired. So do not be sad. Make yourself so busy that you do not have the time to get sad or upset.

Bring up your new version:

Also bring up positive habbits. And do not even beg to these people. Only ask allah for help, not any other person or thing and you can do it. Become alone no matter at which part of your life you are. It will take only 6 months. When you will have the burning desire that I have to do it because there is no other option. Then you will definitely do that.

And do not be desparate that omg please someone likes me if they do not like you, then you do not beg for them okay! You are not supposed to be like that. Is this your worth?Do you think that low of yourself that you are begging others to give you attention and to be with you? If you think that way, you need to come out of that mindset before it is too late. OK! get up we do not have that much time you need to do that. It is your ife no one is going to come and save you. It is your life and responsiblity ok! not others.

Do not have the victim mindset:

You should also know one thing that you should not have that kind of victim mindest. Have your own strenghts. If you want to cry, then cry but do this alone do not become weak in front of other peope. Your mindset should be the giver and provider and not the one that who wants to accept and want to get feeded. Come out of that life and be the creator of your own life. Make yourself happy. Start to feel safe with yourself and do not consider anyother person. Because at this time the only person which you should consider is you and you are important. Get up before it is too late.

It will be difficult only in the starting days:

And if apparently you are seeing that nothing is working in your favour right now and you are loosing everykind of stuff, then just neglect those thoughts. Instead say that may be some big thing is going to happen and you are going to get some bigger oppurtunity rather then that for which you are crying sooo much. So just think that Allah is the best of planners and do not get worries of this world .This world is very temporary.

Anyways guys! it is time to say good byee. Hope you enjoyed reading this blog and it helped you. Love you guys! Take care.