What to do after a breakup _Expert tips to let go and be happy again
Hey Guys! It is me khadija and welcome back. So today we are going to discuss that how to get over a breakup. Or what to do after a breakup. It is either of friendship or of your love story. So if you could not get over your break up story or you are still not admitting that the specific relation of yours with that person has ended. So I am here to tell you that how you can get over it.This is step by step guide to move on after a breakup.
- Accepting the good times_First step to healing a breakup.
- The pain of unintentional breakups.
- The ‘what if’ that haunts after a breakup.
- Breakup means it is over_ Choose self respect now.
- Trust God’s plan_ this breakup had a purpose.
- God has prepared someone better for you.
- Close the chapter_ Your new beginning awaits.
- One day you will know why it did not work.
- Conclusion.
Accepting the good times_First step to healing a breakup:
First of all you need to think that your relationship with that person was veryy good. Or it might be your best relation. And you enjoyed alot there. You were like becoming more productive and more enthusiastic when you were with that person. So you can say that it was the best friendship or relationship of yours.
The pain of unintentional breakups:
But then either he left you or you just made a silly mistake that caused him to be more far away from you. And you did not do that mistake intentionally, but you just made a decision or did a silly mistake which causes you to end. Like let me tell you some relations are like that ,your ex specifically cheats you. Or in some cases your ex hurts you intentionally and breaks up with you. But sometimes it is only a kind of silly mistake which you did unintentionally and as a result that person got distant from you. And then you both got such kind of big distance that you did not even imagined.
The ‘what if’ that haunts after a breakup:
And also that thought haunts you, that if you did not do that thing you could have been with him/her.
Breakup means it is over_ Choose self respect now:
But now you can not do anything. So now listen, break up was break up. Either it was of friendship or relationship. Either this breakup was intentionally or unintentionally. But now admit it that it happened. Now if you try to get back your ex, you will get nothing. Instead your self respect would also go. It is because you are now in a desperate state to have that relationship.
Trust God’s plan_ this breakup had a purpose:
You know if that person was meant to be in your life then, your destiny would not be written like this. He/she was not just right for you. May be you think that it was perfect for view. But you know we are humans, and we cannot see the big picture which God has designed. So if this breakup happened, then it happened because God wanted. And God would never ever make your life ruin. He is the one who can do anything and if He wrote in your destiny that it needed to happen, so it happened.
God has prepared someone better for you:
Just trust the God. Because He is preparing something bigger for you. He has made another person for you to be your best friend or your life partner. So if you could not be with that person, then it means that he/she was not meant for you. Because always remember that whatever is yours is yours. No one can take that from you. You are just regretting because you cannot see that after some period of time, the person which Allah has made for you will come into your life. And you would be very surprised. Ok!
Close the chapter_ Your new beginning awaits:
So now do not regret over which is taken from you. Allah is going to provide you with something bigger which you did not even imagine. So just focus on yourself. Live your life fully. And do not cry for that person who was not meant for you. Because you will get nothing but sadness. So just believe in Allah, trust on His plan. And just enjoy your life fully. That relationship or friendship is now only in your memory. Like it was just a chapter of your life. So it is better for you to end this chapter, because only then your new and beautiful chapter would start.
One day you will know why it did not work:
And when Allah will provide you with that specific person who is only meant for you, then you will realize why Allah has broken your that relationship. Because that relationship or friendship was not even half of it and still you used to be very happy with that. While Allah was going to provide you with much bigger thing. And this time you just cannot see it. That is why you are feeling desperate.
Conclusion:
Anyways guys! It is time for me to say goodbye. I will again say that this loss is not a huge loss as you are thinking. It was just a chapter of your life. So just close this chapter and move on. Allah has made and prepared much bigger things for you. You just need to trust Him and believe in Him.
And if you also want to know that how to start your healing journey, then this is the link you can go and check. It will also help you in healing yourself👇
https://khadspsychology.com/how-to-start-healing-yourself/